So I've finally decided to write again. There are so many things I want to write that I don't know where I begin. There are so many things bottled up inside of everyone; good feelings, bad feelings, anger, hatred, scorn, discomfort, fears but I believe the one thing that's really choking us out and making us so upset is love! Yes, Love and more importantly the words that express this love!
A bit difficult to believe, ain't it? I must be nursing a hangover from yesterday, you think? But take time to think and take time to understand. Normally, when we are angry, sad, scorned, cheated, dumped whatever the negative feeling we experience at the moment, don't we get that out right away. Maybe with arguments, sometimes just during words, sometimes commendable silent treatment, sometimes a full on battle of words to see who has the last say and sometimes very unfortunately a lifelong separation.
I do understand I'm generalizing the topic, yes and I am guilty as charged in all the above situations too. Practice before you preach is sometimes just a proverb, we are learning at our varied consciousness levels. Maybe a lot of us forgive and forget. And more power to them. But this topic is not about negativity. It's about how much love do you truly express to your loved ones.
For example, with most spouses, after a time love is unspoken. Doing things for each other without even being asked, a set routine, a set way of life. Still there's a lot to be said, there's a lot to be thankful for, and there's always a reason for saying I Love You again and again. This doesn't mean that if you don't feel the need to say it, you don't love each other. But in this world where do many relationships come falling apart every other day, isn't it just great we're still together? Just that qualifies a reason to celebrate.
Our parents, children, siblings, relatives, friends every other person means so much to us. How many times do we actually tell them so?
When a person is on their death bed, the biggest regrets are never about what they did in life, but about things they never did or never spoke. Think about it, say your positive feelings more often, express the positive more often, spread love not only through your actions but also your words. Let the people in your life go out in the world smiling away with their hearts full of gratitude because you love them enough to tell them. Speak love!
A bit difficult to believe, ain't it? I must be nursing a hangover from yesterday, you think? But take time to think and take time to understand. Normally, when we are angry, sad, scorned, cheated, dumped whatever the negative feeling we experience at the moment, don't we get that out right away. Maybe with arguments, sometimes just during words, sometimes commendable silent treatment, sometimes a full on battle of words to see who has the last say and sometimes very unfortunately a lifelong separation.
I do understand I'm generalizing the topic, yes and I am guilty as charged in all the above situations too. Practice before you preach is sometimes just a proverb, we are learning at our varied consciousness levels. Maybe a lot of us forgive and forget. And more power to them. But this topic is not about negativity. It's about how much love do you truly express to your loved ones.
For example, with most spouses, after a time love is unspoken. Doing things for each other without even being asked, a set routine, a set way of life. Still there's a lot to be said, there's a lot to be thankful for, and there's always a reason for saying I Love You again and again. This doesn't mean that if you don't feel the need to say it, you don't love each other. But in this world where do many relationships come falling apart every other day, isn't it just great we're still together? Just that qualifies a reason to celebrate.
Our parents, children, siblings, relatives, friends every other person means so much to us. How many times do we actually tell them so?
When a person is on their death bed, the biggest regrets are never about what they did in life, but about things they never did or never spoke. Think about it, say your positive feelings more often, express the positive more often, spread love not only through your actions but also your words. Let the people in your life go out in the world smiling away with their hearts full of gratitude because you love them enough to tell them. Speak love!
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